Courage

More often than not, we cower over a broken heart (well, who would not?!). I believe it is like you have weak knees, you trip over and you are struggling to stand up at that moment yet you think it is futile to even try. You grab on something to help you back on foot but then sometimes you get frightened you might fall back again so you just settle on the ground forgetting on how it would feel better to stand up again.




I really thought it is better not to feel any love towards another person other than your family, relatives, and friends. Really wish my capability of loving would vanish but that is way too impossible because we are born through LOVE. Love that is shared by both our parents. Love that is cherished and we grew up with. But were you able to realize how lucky they are to find the love that will settle down their hearts from wandering? When will I found the right one? And when can I have the chance to stop him from wandering, looking for the right one, who is actually me?




Magic, isn't it? How many times do we hear people mouthing the same old phrase, "There's a lot of fishes in the ocean." If only it is that easy to fish out a person you will love. Although, maybe it is true that love can be learned but I personally, beforehand, you are already open to love the person that you are learning to love. But if you are already determined that you will not love the person, how will you learn to love him? Do you think it is merely a choice? Well, I guess it is magic combined with prayers and a good choice, of course.




Funny, it may seem, that mostly, our problems will relate to love. Does this mean, our purpose on Earth why God send us here is to love and be loved in return? I presume it is one sensible thinking.




However, there are some who think they are masters of others feelings -- playing with emotions. I know I cannot read minds but I wish I do so I will not judge them. But then I remember what Mahatma Ghandi said, 'A man is the sum of his actions, of what he has done, of what he can do. Nothing else.' We are entitled to our own opinion though. But we are judged by the actions we do responsibly or otherwise.

-- aikee --